Creating by not taking things personally

posted on 2015 10 05 in Coaching, with 1 comments

Do you ever have times where it’s hard to stay in control because someone else has really strong emotions and you are reacting to them?

I had the chance to really experience this today as my daughter yelled at me for not making her a smoothie correctly and ruining her life.

So you may wonder how I think that this is creating a life of joy and possibility. While all this was going on today I was able not to react to her emotions. I decided that expressing emotions is so important and can be useful if I find a better way to react to them. In always wanting to make things better for everyone I have really given emotions a powerful charge. Instead of doing this today I was able to let them just be the tool that they are and not take it personally.

I was able to create calm within a highly charged situation and this is the feeling that I want in my life. My daughter was even able to resolve the situation for herself in a calm way once her emotions were released.

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Kaeli

I live in the beautiful city of Ottawa with my family. My life partner and I enjoy our 3 kids and we are living our life of joy everyday.